On Trust

There are 2 main types of people, when it comes to giving trust:

The first type trust no one, until they know you are worth trusting.

The second type just trust, until you prove you are not worth trusting.

I'm of the second type.

I think the ideal, would lay somewhat in between the two - to trust cautiously without being overly wary, and to trust but not blindly.

This, I'm still learning.

Which type are you?

Which type do you prefer to be?

Why Build Walls when we can Build Bridges?

Compromise - the Bridge that joins two sides

Holding your stand - the Wall the divides both.

Build wisely.

Happy Halloween!

Happy Halloween, everyone!

Big kiss from this cold cold land!

Choose first the Emotion, then the Reaction.

If you dare to drill right down to the core yourself, you will discover that :

The TRIGGER behind
-  every single thought you have
-  every single feeling you felt
-  every single thing you have done

came from a place motivated by either Love, or Fear.
Always.


And now, for the big secret.........



......  choose "Love".


Then think again.  Feel again.  Act again.

Conversation in Prague

X:     "Where are you from?"

Me:  "Singapore."

X:     "Singapore?  Where's Singapore?" 

Me:   "In Asia."

X:     "Where is Asia?" 

Me:  "Erm... Singapore's near to Malaysia?"

X:     *blank look*

Me:   "Near to Indonesia?"

X:     *blank look*

Me:  "Vietnam?  Thailand?"

X:     "Ah, Thailand!  You are from Thailand!"

Me:   "Yes....  Thailand...."

The Head and The Wall

Pardon me, while I go bang my head against the wall.


Normal blogging shall resume when the head-banging stops. 
Or the wall breaks. 
Or my head.

Not The Other Way Round

  
  
In view of the September 11 anniversary, I wanna remind myself of these ideas I strive to live up to :


-   Cultivate a tough mind and a tender heart; and not the other way round.

-   Love people, use things; and not the other way round.

-   In my conduct: take the high road, get off the high horse; and not the other way round.


Have a good weekend, people.